I’m a 20yrs old turning 21 female, been wit my bf for 5yrs.I love him so much, I couldn imagine life without

him I hav been livin with him & his parents 4 6mths now we r jus bout 2 move out in2 a house wit his brother & gf. L8ly we been arguing its kinda stopd for bout 2wks.but I feel me thnkn bout it again & startn 2get paranoid.lot of is bout me not being my own person & doin things on my own. I admit I can get a bit clingy & always lookn 4 reurance but 4 sum reason cant help it. How do I stop this- its causn fights. I mainly thnk about things & get nyself paranoid when im at work and then I send him like 10 diff msgs a day, which annoys him (dnt blame him) I usually calm down wen I see him and am at home, im pretty unhappy in my job – just don’t know wot work I want to do. I don’t know how 2 feel confident and secure in myslef.