Troubles getting wet during , and . any ideas?

relax first off you might be thinking too much is mostly in your mind so what ur thinking may have alot to do with how well do you know your body you have to know what turns YOU on and convey this to your partner so-id suggest you relax feel your body n what your doing to him let it happen naturally some times what i do to him knowing hes loving it makes me wet all by itself good luck